How should I catch my partner`s IP while I am chatting through yahoo or hotmail messenger?

How should I catch my partner`s IP address while I am chatting with him or her through yahoo or hotmail messenger? Is it possible? If it is then please tell me how to catch it.
How should I catch my partner`s IP while I am chatting through yahoo or hotmail messenger?
See the main window of Yahoo! Messenger. An "offline" or "invisible" user will show a gray icon on the left of her name. In this example, we want to see if the user darling is online or not. Right-click on the username.














When the menu appears, select Invite to Conference.











A window will appear. See at the right pane, the username darling will be there. Now, click Invite.











The deciding part... there are 2 possible result:


If the user is offline, you will get this message:











But if the user is invisible, you will get a window similar to this














Method 2





Voice Chat











See the main window of Yahoo! Messenger. An "offline" or "invisible" user will show a gray icon on the left of the username. Double-click on the username to open this window.











Click on "Voice" icon on the toolbar, or select "Contact" menu and select "Enable Voice Chat"





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The deciding part... there are 2 possible result:


If the user is offline, you will get this message:














But if the user is invisible (actually online), you will see the Voice Toolbar (marked red in the picture) like this:











Method 3





Doodle IMvironment








See the main window of Yahoo! Messenger. An "offline" or "invisible" user will show a gray icon on the left of her name. In this example, we want to see if the user darling is online or not. Double-click on the username.











A message window will open. Send an arbitrary message to the user. After sending, quickly proceed to step 3.











Click IMVironment button, select See all IMVironments, select Yahoo! Tools or Interactive Fun, and click on Doodle.











The last step and the most important step. After loading the Doodle IMVironment, there will be two possibilities.


If the user is offline, the Doodle area will show "waiting for your friend to load Doodle" continuously, like this:














But if the user is online (in invisible mode), after few seconds (it can take up to one minute, depending on connection speed), you will get a blank page. So the user is online!!!!














Method 4





"Destealther" program





Using a third-party program (We don't take any responsibility against the usage of the program, and please don't ask anything to me about this program!) called Destealther, you can know which users are in invisible state (aka. online) and which are offline.














But this program has a disadvantage. The program checks whether a user is online or offline based on Yahoo! web status. Therefore, status of a user whose Privacy Option is modified so the others cannot see the status, cannot be determined using this program.








even use buddy-spy
Reply:This freeware utility will show all currently open TCP/IP and UDP ports on your computer, along with the remote IP addresses to which they're connected.





http://www.nirsoft.net/utils/cports.html
Reply:Well its quite easy.....Just send him a file lets say an mp3 so that it takes some time and close all programms that use you internet connection and go to start/run and type cmd.exe .A programm with a black background will appear nd that is command prompt.There you can type commands and do fun stuff.Now to get you friends ip you type in command prompt the word netstat.This command show all active connections to other computers or servers, there you will find you friend's ip or domain name.
Reply:With that kind of question, I consider it risky to answer you.
Reply:U sound like stalker!
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